Son's
death leads mother to fight for epilepsy cure
May 8, 2003
BILL
FARRELL
Observer-Dispatch
Chris
Donalty of Utica had his whole world ahead of him when
he died suddenly in February 2002 at age 21.
A
senior at Stetson University in Florida, he was preparing
to enter graduate school in business. He was found dead
in his bed, a textbook beside him and an application
he was filling out for a summer job with the Bureau
of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms next to his books.
Chris
died from SUDEP - Sudden Unexplained Death due to Epilepsy.
Jeanne
Donalty said her son approached life with a joy and
passion, as many who knew the former Proctor Senior
High standout baseball player will attest.
As
a mother, she also wants people to know it is "unacceptable
to die from a seizure."
Today,
she'll bring that message to Congress in hopes that
others will understand the critical need of finding
a cure for epilepsy.
Donalty
will testify before the House Appropriations Subcommittee
on Labor, Health and Human Services, Education and Related
Agencies on behalf of Citizens United for Research in
Epilepsy.
It's
a volunteer, grass roots, nonprofit organization founded
in 1998 by mothers of children with epilepsy who were
frustrated with their inability to protect their children
from the devastation of seizures and the side effects
of medications.
"Chris
would want people to know that he had no idea
that
this disease could claim his life at such an early age,"
his mother said. Donalty is Utica district office manager
for Rep. Sherwood Boehlert, R-New Hartford. Her husband
is Acting State Supreme Court Judge Barry Donalty.
Chris
had his first seizure in fourth grade, she said, but
medical tests showed nothing and the family was assured
there was no cause for alarm. Four years later, he had
another seizure, then a third four years after that.
The
doctor told the Donaltys that Chris had epilepsy, that
he would have to start taking medication and give up
his driver's license. But he also said Chris could lead
a normal life with few restrictions.
Chris
began taking anticonvulsant medication and graduated
from high school seizure free. Donalty remembers with
pleasure when she and her husband packed up their son
and drove him to Stetson.
"He
started playing ball, joined a fraternity and began
those wonderful carefree days as a college freshman,"
she recalled.
But
there were more seizures. Another medication was added,
but in Chris' sophomore year the medications made him
sick and he became depressed, especially since he continually
had to fight debilitating side effects, his mother said.
When he came home, there was another medication change.
"From
that point on we believed Chris was seizure free. But
we learned after his death that the seizures had never
stopped. Chris did not tell his doctor or us."
The
Donaltys don't know why. They can only imagine he was
determined not to let his illness control him. "He
wanted to drive a car, to live independently, and somehow,
I know he believed he could figure this all out,"
Jeanne Donalty said.
She'll
tell the subcommittee that Chris Donalty's story is
just one of "many equally heartbreaking stories
of disappointment, fear, loss, lives cut short and families
with shattered dreams."
And
she'll emphasize that despite public perception, epilepsy
is not a manageable disorder. There are still too many
unanswered questions, too many unsatisfactory treatments
and still no cure, she said.
As
a member of CURE, Donalty has actively worked to raise
the level of epilepsy awareness in New York and around
the nation. Since its inception, CURE has raised more
than $1 million to fund initiatives that will lead the
way to a cure.
It
was Boehlert who arranged for Donalty's appearance before
the subcommittee today. She'll be one of 18 people giving
testimony on various topics.
Boehlert
said he was hopeful that through collective Congressional
efforts "we can work together at all levels to
support more research and ultimately find a cure."
Donalty
said she knows that if Chris were at her side today
giving testimony he would say, "We can waste no
more time."
A
fund-raising benefit for CURE -- called the Christopher
Donalty CURE benefit - will be at 6 p.m. Thursday, Sept.
4, at Alfredo's Banquet-Restaurant, Seneca Turnpike,
New Hartford. Benefit chairman will be local attorney
George Aney. Money raised will go to CURE for research.
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